Does anyone listen...to anybody!?
It doesn't seem like it. People have their agendas and if what you're saying does not match the agenda, good luck finding an ear.
It doesn't seem like it. People have their agendas and if what you're saying does not match the agenda, good luck finding an ear.
Most people listen with the intent to reply, not to understand.
I am guilty of this. And I am a therapist!!!
I am guilty of this. And I am a therapist!!!
This is a humble reality.
I want to be the kind of person whose main goal is to UNDERSTAND what a person is trying to say. Not to solve their problem. Not to assume. Not to think about my response before they finish their words. I want to be a person who truly listens and allows people to feel heard.
Goal: SEEK FIRST TO UNDERSTAND, THEN TO BE UNDERSTOOD.
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